Isn’t it captivating? The way different people touch, the way different people taste…
I remember distinct things about many of my lovers.
How he grabs my inner thigh in the car, letting me know he’s going to devour my sweetness when we get home
The side eye and smirk he gives me when I unexpectedly say something seductive
The way he looks up to the sky when he sees me naked, as if he’s thanking god. I am god.
The way another frowns and bites his bottom lip when he puts me on my back, I’m ready to fully submit
The way he can’t control himself being around me, he has to feel me, even if it’s just for a second
The gentle touch of the tip of his tongue on my clit as he looks me dead in the eyes, slowly building tension
How he pulls me in close when he first enters me, making sure none of my insides go untouched
The kiss on the back of my neck and shoulder after I cum, letting me know he’s got me...
Do you notice the details of your lovers?
IT’S THRILLING.
Sex is so much more than penetration. It’s the little details that send us and our partners willddddd
Any man who has made me loose all sense because the sex is so good has had two things in common:
MY pleasure comes before his. Let’s face it, it’s easy for men to cum and a lot of women are unsatisfied because of the lack of energy control men have. Sex is really a marathon and not a race. If you feel yourself about to buss before your partner has climaxed, just stop, redirect your focus and energy onto them. Pull out, start finger fucking and sucking titties instead. Remember, the bigger the build up the bigger the buss 🤤 (most of the time)
They RESPECT me. This may seem obvious like why would you have sex with someone who doesn’t respect you? But lust and attraction does not equate to respect. They value me as a human being and not ‘a prize’ to just stick their dick into. My best lovers have intellectually stimulated me as well as psychically.
I used to do a lot of sex. Some was multi-dimensional, others less than average. I was always calculating when I was going to have my next adventure and who it would be with. 80% of the time that hunger was coming from a place of insecurity but I’ll give it to the old me, she took and owned that shit!
Things are a little different now. Your wombman has been and continues, on a sexual healing journey, it’s taught me so much about myself and my intimacy needs. Crazy how our conditioning has us believing absolute bullshit about ourselves and our actions. But a little break from the excitement of sex has enabled me to see through the false narratives I fed myself.
My sex drive is still high but that’s just me, I fucking love to fuck. I’m missing it! The whole process of meeting someone new, texting and having a flirt. First date tings, dressing all spicy with a few outfit details that will spark some excitement but not too much - we classy now. Getting to know the other persons cues, what turns them on? Are they more visual or do they prefer to feel? Will he fuck me in public? Should I wear my crotchless panties to dinner? Will he tie me up? Will he suck my toes? Will he let me eat his ass?
ITS ALL JUST TOO EXCITING.
I’ve always had tings and back ups for the tings. I’ve always had people I’m chatting to and people in the side lines so this past year has been foreign to me. I have truly been alone for the first time in a very long time. No chatting, no dates, no nothing…
We are 47 days away from Shannon being released back into the wild and I can confidently say; no one will be getting this pussy. Do I want to fuck? Yes of course I do, I want that shit daily. Are there any potential men who deserve this goddess portal? Short answer: na.
Apart from the weather showing me there will be a 70% chance of rain and not a potential lover in sight this week. Things will be kept under lock and key until a beautiful specimen decides to reveal himself to me. I didn’t just spend 12 months (almost), man free, for me to fall back into old patterns. Fuck that.
I can feel the new energies coming and hopefully i'll be cumming soon too.
Until next time lovers,
SIS xox
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